Anonymous asked: A player, who's nice & I've known since elementary school/now almost 16 [me], turns me on so so much. He knows exactly how to turn me on & always talks about what he'd do to me. I really do wanna have sex with him, but I'm a virgin & he knows that. What should I do?
You’ve said it yourself, he’s a ‘player’. It all depends on your feelings towards losing your virginity. If you want it to lead to a relationship or involve some sort of emotion, steer well clear! If you’re horny and just want some no strings fun, then go for it! xoxo
Anonymous asked: Are you submissive or a dominatrix?
I’m a submissive little princess xoxo
I love life drawing, it’s so fun, but this company specialises in hen (bachelorette) parties, so the model will be an oiled-up-male-stripper-type-man-person. It’s either going to be insanely fun or insanely frustrating to see dick drawings all afternoon.
Anonymous asked: I miss your beautiful face! :)
That’s very nice of you, fanx! :) I missed you all too until I realised that my inbox actually had messages and didn’t notify me…AGAIN. D’oh! xoxo
Anonymous asked: What is like the female equivalent to a boner? Like guys get boners so do girls just get wet?
Haha this is a nice question, I guess we just get tingly and throbby down there? I’m not sure about other girls but I can’t really feel if I’m wet unless I physically shove a hand down there xoxo
Anonymous asked: Sorry okay I guess I was super unclear? Well he doesn't completely ignore the clit but I was just wondering if there was anything I could get him to do that could potentially make it I guess better?? (We're both pretty inexperienced but we're willing to experiment and what not..)
Ah I getcha! Well first of all focus on the clit nonstop. Don’t pause for a second of fingering, keep that stuff for warming up. Sometimes it can get a bit distracting if there are too many things being stimulated at once. If this doesn’t work, think about how you make yourself come, show him how you masturbate. It’s so much easier when you work together to get the best pleasure possible. xoxo
Anonymous asked: So I don't find it very difficult to make my boyfriend cum but I never can when he fingers me.. Is there anything I can get him to do that will help?
By fingering do you mean penetration? Because not all girls can come from penetration alone! Most girls achieve orgasm through clitoral stimulation. While fingering can be pleasurable for some people, for some it just doesn’t do a thing! If he’s completely ignoring your clit, then there’s your problem xoxo
"You act like it’s some class you take" is a text this guy sent me yesterday as he is referring to sex. He knows I’m a virgin, the conversation went from us messaging about sports to him bringing up sex. When I told him that I need to be schooled on sports, he said that I need to schooled on other things too ;) I told him that I know my worth & won’t just give myself to anyone & said that I know a lot about it. I’m not even sure how to reply to his text. would be lying if I said I never wanted him.
Anonymous asked: Hey! :) so me and this girl I really like are now fuck buddies and she says that she really enjoys it, even though I've got very little confidence but we had like 3 days in which we just had sex and now I feel like I'm already out of ideas to get her going, I wasn't a virgin but I wasnt exactly experienced either, have you got any ideas I could try?
Sex doesn’t have to involve whipped cream and acrobatics to be amazing. The best sex is when you truly know how to satisfy each other. Find out what she likes, judge her reactions to everything you do. If you both have amazing orgasms I can bet you that neither of you will care what kind of stunts you had to pull to get there xoxo
Anonymous asked: I'm really bad at leaving a lovebite/hickey. My boyfriend doesn't have a problem with them but whenever I try they just never leave a mark! Is there a technique I should be doing?
Suck reaaaaally hard, as hard as you can, until it feels like your lips are going to fall off. It depends on how wide your mouth is open, how hard you suck and where you’re sucking. Some places bruise ridiculously easily (the neck for example), whilst others will have the faintest mark after what feels like forever xoxo
Anonymous asked: I'm really self conscious of myself and my body. When me and my boyfriend have sex I feel awkward staring at him for long periods of time and I always ask if I can turn the lights off so he can't look at me or my body, but he says that's weird. Any suggestions on how I can overcome having sex with the lights out
There’s no cure for this other than time. Your boyfriend obviously likes your body, he wants to leave the lights on and see you and touch you. In time when you get to feel closer you’ll begin to understand that just because you don’t find yourself desirable, it doesn’t mean that others won’t like to look. When you truly know and trust a person, feeling embarrassed isn’t an issue. You’ll be able to sit naked and munch on pizza or anything else that sounds truly hideous, because when you truly love someone you’re not put off by a few rolls! I’m afraid there’s no magical answer for this, the only solution is to slowly learn to become more appreciative of what other people see and obviously like xoxo
thembitchesbecrazy asked: Hello! Not a question, but just wanted to say that I came across your blog and love it! I like seeing other people being open about sex and the fact that you're helping others be open too is awesome. Might have to share a story with you some time xx
Awh thank you! That makes me really happy :~) xoxo
I’m 18 and before today, I’ve never masturbated. When I did it today I got myself off better than my boyfriend. Who knew I could make myself climax so good :)
aquilathegreat asked: Do you have nay advice on how to regulate your period without birth control? My mom is strict and will never support me using. So do you know of any alternatives/natural remedies? Thanks
I’m not sure, but personally I don’t think there’s anything you can do to stop it naturally! If it wants to bleed, you bet it’ll bleed. If your periods are really uncomfortable or bothering you, talk to your doctor. Would your mum approve if you went to the doctor’s together and spoke about it for periods only? Even if not, there’s no reason why you need to tell her if you really have your heart set on it. It’s confidential and she doesn’t have to find out if you don’t want her to xoxo
Anonymous asked: i'm a 21 year old woman, i have a very nice body and my face isn't ugly, people often tell me they like my sense of humor and tell me i'm social and smart. and yet, i haven't had sex for half a year. i was dating this guy but he was trying to play me (he was acting very sexy when we were together but ignored my messages and never called me or anything) so i ditched him. then i dated 2 others who also hardly ever respond or just forget abot me. i really need sex. how do i get ppl to like me? xx
"You can be the ripest, juiciest peach in the world, but there’s always going to be somebody who hates peaches."
It doesn’t matter about your looks or personality, sometimes you just don’t click with people. You can’t ‘get’ people to truly like you, if you’re compatible with someone it’ll work out on its own. You just have to be patient and sift through the riffraff until you find people who you work with :) You might find them next week, next month or even tomorrow. There’s no magic formula to find friends or potential partners. xoxo