Anonymous asked: What should a girl do while shes on the bottom during sex? Im nervous
- Kiss his lips, face, neck, chest
- Rub and touch the bod
- Rub and touch your own bod
- Grab the booty
There are lots of things you can do, don’t worry you won’t end up lying there like a dead fish. I’m sure as long as you keep your hands busy you’ll be fine! xoxo
Anonymous asked: In answer to the last ask - no we were both in underwear. His hips dug into my thighs regardless? :/
Oh dear! Hmm I think maybe you need to limit your dry humping sessions or change positions regularly? Find ways of making out that don’t involve such hardcore hip abusing. Maybe lie next to each other closely and just use your hands? Dry humping is very fun but if it’s starting to hurt you try mixing things up and not doing it for such ling periods of time xoxo
Anonymous asked: Okay so me & my boyfriend were dry humping last week and (being the girl) I found that my inner thighs really started to hurt because of his hips. It can get painful. Since we haven't had sex yet I wondered if you knew way around this!
Is it the friction of jeans / clothes that are causing the soreness? It’s no wonder you’re starting to chafe! Are you guys comfortable with dry humping in underwear or shorts? Skin on skin is much less abrasive! Any material that’s not rough or will rub you red raw is the key xoxo
I’m supposed to be finishing my dissertation but I’m watching porn and writing to Norman Foster about how he’s my number 1 fave architect 4 lyfe and how much I want to be part of his flock.
Last night, I had sex naked for the first time in my life. I had never been able to previously as I had always felt so disgusted with myself due to years of emotional abuse from an ex boyfriend, which left me with very little self worth and self confidence. But last night it felt like something had changed within me. I was completely in control, dominant and completely naked, and I’ve never felt sexier. I can’t describe how amazing it felt to feel him all over every inch of me. It was perfect.
Anonymous asked: What's the best way to discuss contraception with my mum? I'm 16 and of age where I'm from. I've been with my boyfriend for two months and I want to be safe. I know she'll flip if she thinks it's for anything else than to control my periods :/
Hey love, why exactly would she flip? You’re of age and it’s your body, if you really feel that you can’t discuss that with her that’s okay because you can ask a doctor or nurse for help.
I’m just gonna presume you’re in the UK if you’re 16? There are a bajillion drop-in clinics up and down the country, pop in to one of their sessions when you can. Take a friend if it makes you feel better! The nurses are there to answer as many questions as you have, contraception is free and confidential so you don’t have to worry about your mum finding out.
If the main problem is that you want to talk to your mum about it, I’m afraid the only way is to jump in and ask! I know it’s scary, but she might not react in the way you think she will. But there’s no harm in starting off by talking to her about it as a way to control your periods if they’re super uncomfortable or whatnot. Either way, it’s great that you want to be safe and are taking precautions beforehand.
Good luck with it all! xoxo
Anonymous asked: I am 81, impotent, want a partner, but if I had her how could I satisfy her how could she satisfy me?
There are endless methods of satisfying a woman without intercourse, but I really have no experience / knowledge of impotency! Really sorry xoxoxoxo
I went to a house party tonight and a friends’ boyfriend was really awful and racist in a “subtle” way towards me. Ha ha ha racist remarks are so funny.
It made me feel so fucking angry and disgusted, K was so kind and understanding about it all, he’s so wonderful.
Some people are utter shitbags blergh. Rant over.
And I’m working for a deadline tomorrow, I am nowhere near done and I feel like death.
I would very much like to ditch all the work and sleep on K’s chest. But if I do that I will never get a decent job and be able to spend my entire salary on expensive lingerie.
Anonymous asked: Okay, here it goes. I just wanted to say that I've NEVER had good sex. I don't know if it's me, or if i just keep picking the wrong guys to sleep with, but every time it's been awful. I'm not sure how to fix this, lol. Any.. helpful ideas? I'd love to get this sorted out and start enjoying it. I have a feeling that it's because of my self confidence issues, i just get so nervous that they're going to hate me after they see me with my clothes off, lol.
Being paranoid about how you look can make sex pretty shitty, you’re not concentrating on the act itself, you’re thinking about how your body looks at different angles. Thinking about belly rolls or stray hairs isn’t sexy. I’d say you should address these issues first, maybe you’ve just slept with shitty guys, but even if not the best sex is when you don’t even care what you look like! Feeling good about yourself is a start, but the right guy will always make you feel sexy xoxo
We were at a drive in movie in the summer, in the back of her car, covered in blankets. We started kissing and getting very passionate. Soon her jeans and panties were pushed down her legs and my fingers were inside her. I kissed her neck as she groaned and started to reach into my pants. She covered my hand with her wetness and came very very fast. I licked my fingers and kissed her as she began stroking me. Before long I was moaning her name and covering her hand with my cum! Fantastic memory!
Anonymous asked: So I've been talking to this guy friend a lot lately. We've gotten into some heavy sexting and makeout sessions. But I really want a relationship with this guy too! How can I tell him I want something more than what we have going on?? Thanks :) xoxo
Just casually ask what he wants from hanging out with you. “Are you looking for a makeout buddy or anything more?” Just be casual and fun about it, it’s better to ask than to keep wondering? xoxo
Anonymous asked: Where do you prefer guys to cum? I think you mentioned in the past you are on the pill so is it always inside?
Yiss I’m on the pill, but I just prefer Kieran to come inside as it’s wonderful to feel someone you love orgasm! It’s much more intimate. We do the odd facial / boobie shot every now and then, but we both find it more love-ish to come inside xoxo
Anonymous asked: Have you given Kieran a blowjob?
We’ve been together for a while so yes blowjobs come up quite often! xoxo
after a week of us being apart. Except I slightly guessed he was coming over so I put stockings, suspenders and the full works on.
We rolled around semi-nude for two hours, it was glorious. Much finger sucking and holding my legs in weird positions until it hurt. I was very sore the next day, how wonderful!